Marriage & family financial planning app (when to marry/have kids)

Dear young men, Please, try to marry early. Start small, but not empty. A 60 year old man married at 38. His wife is 54. They have 5 children, and the oldest is 21, & not yet a graduate. He walked away from his marriage due to frustration, lack of job, even when he's qualified. His wife and children (asides the first child), have turned their backs on him. Before he walked away, he wrote a suicide note. He stiii tries to provide for them, but he's tired. The 3rd child just got admission to study medicine and surgery. There is no money, & he's now very suicidal because his responsibilities are weighing him down. With a 54 year old estranged wife, & him being 60, you can tell that they're both aging and becoming weaker. Clearly, he still has at least 10 years to train all his 5 children. Meaning, he would still be spending heavily even at 70. When he should be a grandfather and resting. And his wife, a grandmother, and taking care of him. I keep telling you all these, because you're always thinking that you want to make enough money before you marry. You fail to see that age is a major factor in decision making towards marriage. The average retirement age for a man is 60. After 60, you'll become tired and you may not have enough financial resources to shoulder your responsibilities. The amount of children that you and your wife have decided to have, is also a major factor. If you married late, please know that raising kids is a very expensive venture. That you have money to feed them now that they're still toddlers, doesn't mean the money will keep coming. And very few men will be rich or have good money after 50. Marrying early, when you're still very productive, is a wise decision. Making sure that you do not have many children when you marry late, is a wise decision. The 60 year old man is tired. And the pressure and lack of respect from his estranged wife, and children have made it worse. Do not say that you'll be an exception. And I know that many of you experienced this while growing up under your parents. Life became more difficult for your father when you were in secondary school, & going to the university was almost hopeless. But for God who showed you mercy. Everything requires planning. I have two children with my wife, and I can afford to have more if I want. However, I know that money may not always be there. And I'm no longer a young man. And I do not intend to make my kids suffer for my decisions. I hope you understand me. End.

@jon_d_doe Do you know the percentage of people living in poverty because of early marriages please people should build their finances before bringing a child into this world unless you want to deprive your children the basic thing of life